Your Voice is the Key

Have you ever wondered what your voice reveals about you? Well I have recently noticed the difference between the voice of a woman who is a royal vs the voice of a woman who is in a defensive state. There was a video where a man had to select who was a royal and who wasn't not. As soon as the woman spoke, I knew she was a royal, and it was because her voice was soft, delicate. It sounded as if in her daily conversations she was at peace and was able to remain gentle. Now, in an average day to day, a woman is likely to experience some time of relational or relative experience that brings out some aggression even if its internalized, the moment she speaks about it you can’t hear the frustration in the voice. Even when most women protect their peace, the defensiveness is almost necessary, like a princess transforming herself into a warrior when her territory is being entered by someone carelessly or forcefully. Now in the voice of the woman, who I will describe as a female rapper with a reputation of having to defend herself in multiple instances in her life such of which have been publicly scrutinized. her voice in her music is strong, it is punching, it almost sounds like she is putting down each lyric for you to hear it loud and clear. I can hear the defensiveness in her voice, but is it possible that the voice is the key for what is yet to come? if someone is born a real, their daily practice of speaking will always have a gracefulness to it, one that will stay for life because their life is more attended too. someone with attacks to who they are with little to no one defending them will have to stand guarded, and perhaps their voice will continue to produce these situations for them. Why is it that female rappers go through relationships and life experiences more subjectivity to crutussmise than others who speak more softly. why is voice treated with the same environment. can changing the voice change the circumstances and situation you encounter. is this the type of healing that is untacked about?

how is this related to when guys turn on their low voices around when they like or when women speak in their natural tone when they are around a man who eases their nervous system. is losing the defensiveness within the tone a way to heal nervous system or is it taking down the defense that is needed to protect women against aggressive men? and it is softness only really reserved for those who are surrounded by the luxury people and environments that protect them too.

there was this story of a girl I read who had the ability synestisia which allowed her to taste the words she was hearing. she said her favorite word was forever and the words that were her least favorite gave a bad taste in her mouth. well interesting enough she recognized this ability in another person who was doing a poetry read allowed,a nd being that they had the same condition, their relationship moved quickly along. she had stated that they would go back nd forth sharing each others favorite word, which would have brought mutual pleasure, however, she described that one day when he had said they would be together forever. it left a bad taste in her mouth. eventually she had found out some information which shortly after brought a decline in their relationship and thus an ending. what could that have to do with this review of the voice, well I think of this as a similar scenario to when a person has the ability to analysie the tone of someones voice as to weather they are lying, which I at times am able to do. its like that argument you hear, the wife says I love you and the husband says it back but his tone of voice sounds as if he is sarcastic or difficult to say back. the tone of voice can reveal the truth in my opinion. it doesn’t require the nervous system to be fully healed but its surely helpful for the sack of clarity vs anxiety thinking. A defensive woman is a lying man, that carry something in their tine that disrupts the communication of authenticity and what is authenticity if it is not truth.

truth, women ar not born defensive; truth, a woman’s protective guard is built up by her environment. What he experienced is written on our bodies through our wrinkles to our voice to our scars. what I want to make clear is that we can tell a lot by who a person is (based on nurture not necessarily nature) by the softness/loudness voice, we can tell a a lie many times through tone, pitch, or accents, and we can hear pain carried in the body from holding in their sorrow through the voice barley being able to come out of the mouth or sounding scratchy.