Have you become Dickmatised?

Dickmatised. DICK-MA-TISED: A hypnosis placed over a person after a sexual encounter that makes them feel a sacral attachment to the penis of such person. This is a strong deluded state where all other factors of the person are over looked, and the desire for the person to be inside you is as strong as the hormonal drive of a teenager with their first big crush. Me and my girlfriends have all fallen into this state at least once in our lives. It is a time where we are desperately craving a “filling”, and now I don’t mean this sexually, I mean it as an emotional state of being full. To have something, and to hold something. Almost like the need to fulfill a satisfaction of physical touch, but it goes deeper than it. It is almost as agonising as it is sexually compelling. It usually occurs when we are with a half decent man/boy, and we decide, for whatever amount of alcohol consumption or inflated idea of them, to sleep with them. For some reason it is enjoyable, and not always because it’s good, sometimes it’s enjoyable because at your lowest state is the state it radiates and lives in, so that emotional hell is mutually understood. Anyways, if it is good, it’s cause it’s better than the rest, usually in size and for the reason he is paying attention to what your body actually responds to. So naturally, you want more, and when you don’t have it, you can go a little crazed. For example, in my case, I could feel this person’s energy linger on me after sex, but after a few hours it would dissipate and I would want to go back for more. It acted similarly to a hunger. Therefore, later on, when we were not engaging with one another intimately, I would be drawn to the fact I missed his…. you get the picture. And so, all the other things that through my common sense I acknowledged were reasons to end it, walk away, lose interest, I still missed it. I had become dickmatised and boy, did it not go away easily. Why would you want it to? I mean, if it’s a strong force, it can give you energy, especially energy to play and fantasize with. If you are a shy lover, the fantasy alone time, with a good source of imagery and energy, is, as we can say, fan-fucking-tastic. We shouldn’t be shy about saying this, I mean it’s a much better confession than “I watch porn actively, and go on women’s Instagram to jerk off” — ew no… See, what this is, is a phenomenon. I think it’s like a rite of passage, and you are meant to get on your high horse and walk away, even if it takes 3–6 months plus flashbacks over the next 3 years :) We don’t judge, we adjust. If you are currently going through a dickmatisation, contact your nearest home gurl and ask her to do a sacral chakra cleanse and some solo sex yoga positions to help release the energy in there. I know it will suck to get rid of the energy of that midnight, red light, candle lit, treat but its better because in the end you do not want to be attached to a bum when you can get off on yourself (plus our future husbands prob of spiritually judging us lol).

With love and clarity, Ascent